I will be 41 in October, and my 23rd wedding aniversery is in November. No kids, just a cat. I am in menapause due to a radical hysterectomy in January 2001. I am on the patch for it, when i remember, and it does well. I am, and have been, takeing Zoloft for at least 10 years now. I am a recovering prescription drug addict. I had an accidental overdose in July 1991 and was hospitallized for 20 days. In june of 2000 hubby and i decided we would see other people thinking that monogamy was n...